Finding a gift for your significant other on Valentine’s Day can be hard and stressful! Let this couple’s guide help you keep your relationship spicy, hot and full of love! Some of these are for men, some for women, and some shared but loved by couples 😉
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A gift that is sexy, fun, and helps keep your love spicy is one of my favorite gifts! Don’t get me wrong, I also love to give and receive gifts that are cute and meaningful. My husband and I are not shy when it comes to trying new things, keeping our love passionate and alive, but we both choose to put the effort into each other every day.
Keep your relationship spicy, hot, and full of love
Both my husband and I are committed to each other and that means making sure we keep our relationship a priority and fun. We never want to become one of those couples who just does the same routine day after day and end up never wanting each other.
So, in order for our relationship to stay strong – we make sure that our marriage and our love are number 1 on our list and we do that by making sure we are always both satisfied in the relationship (both inside and outside of the bedroom!).
Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas that will Keep your relationship spicy, hot, and full of love
1. Under the Bed Restraint System
I had to start the list off with a bang! These can add so much fire to your relationship and your partner is going to love it! Trust me, my husband and I have these and they are a game changer!

2. Men Underwear Funny Boxer Briefs
So I bought my husband a pair of a Cat holding a taco and slice of pizza and we thought it was hilarious! You might think that these are only for your husband, but they definitely are not. These are so funny (and cute!) and silky and a perfect gift for Valentine’s Day to keep your relationship spicy, hot, and full of love!
I bought these for my husband about a year ago and he loves them so much! He talks about how soft they are and how comfortable every time he wears them and I love when I see him in them because it is just always so funny and adorable!
3. I want your _____ chocolates
These chocolates add so much fun to your relationship! You can choose a word from the drop-down menu or simply create your own! It is so fun and keeps the laughter strong! Plus, it’s chocolate *drool*
4. A Fabletics membership
I am sure you have seen your girl looking at these so why not get her some!? They are fantastic and plus, you get to look at her (or yourself!) in these so it’s a win-win for couples!
5. The Adventure Challenge
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They have 3 adventure challenges – one for couples, one for friends, and one for family. They are so much fun and create so many memories! This is such a great Valentine’s Day gift!

6. Perfume & Cologne
This is a must on the list!
Women love perfume, it just makes us feel fresh and pretty! My all-time favorite perfume (and my husband’s addiction) is Lancome La Vie Est Belle. It smells so amazing, lasts ALL day, and the bottle lasts for months!
Fun Fact: When my husband and I used to work together before we were married, in the morning I would spray my perfume (ALWAYS the Lancome La Vie Est Belle!) on while standing in his office. It would always make us laugh because it would stop him in his tracks as he inhaled it and he would always look over at me as if he couldn’t wait to kiss me after we left work.
My husband loves Ralph Lauren Polo Red Eau de Toilette Spray. I cannot handle strong smelling colognes and usually make my husband shower if he has something on that is too strong, but this is always a go-to! The smell lasts all day, subtle but so nice. If handsome had a smell – this would be it!
7. Satisfyer pro 2 next generation
This toy is so much fun for couples. Trust me. It will change your relationship and your sex life. My husband and I love trying new toys and always having something fun in the bedroom, but this has been our go-to toy for months! PERFECT GIFT FOR VALENTINE’S DAY – TRUST ME!

8. Wine of the Month
Because, it’s wine. Does that require any more of an explanation?
9. Stella & Dot Engravable Bar Necklace
This engravable necklace is sure to woo your girl’s heart!

10. Cricut Maker
Does your significant other love to create crafts and make things from scratch? Then you need to get them this Cricut Maker for Valentine’s Day! It is seriously life-changing! The crafts you can do with this machine are endless and they will LOVE it!

11. Rene Rofe Crotchless Bow Back Panty
I am not sure if this would be a Valentine’s Day gift for your husband or yourself (probably both!) but these are sure to bring some fun to the bedroom… or wherever else 😉

12. Ninja Hot and Cold Brewed System
If your significant other loves coffee then this coffee make is a must have on the gift list! My husband and I love coffee and it is something we always have to start our day off with (and usually keep having throughout the day!) and we finally, after much research, picked this one. It creates such great, smooth coffee each and every time and we love being able to create different lattes or teas at just a click of a button! It is so dang good!
13. BOLDLOFT From My Heart to Yours His and Hers Matching Couple Coffee Mugs Set
I am all about anything coffee related and these matching couple coffee mugs are so cute! I might be a coffee mug freak but there are just so many ones out there, how can I not be?! These are such a small cute Valentine’s Day gift that is sure to bring a smile to their face.
14. Luna Bean Keepsake Hands Casting Kit
This is such a cute and unique gift and something you can cherish and create such fun memories with.
15. Talk, Flirt, Dare! Fun and Romantic Game for Couples
I bought this for my husband for Christmas and we have loved it! It is so much fun and brings some spice to your relationship this Valentine’s Day in a fun, unique and unknown ways. 😉
16. Namofactur Infinity I Love You LED Light Wall Hanging
17. Luna Rechargeable Personal Wand Massager
This massager will be a serious game-changer this Valentine’s Day when it comes to fun in the bedroom. Okay, so it says it can be used for muscles and back massaging but by the looks of the comments (and personal experience) – it is definitely used in a much more *fun* way if you know what I mean 😉
18. Smirly Cheese Board and Knife Set
19. Preserved Real Rose with Silver-Tone Heart Necklace
20. Sexy Illusion Bodystocking

21. Foreplay In A Row Game

22. Shinesty Boxers – Valentine’s Day Edition
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23. Get Matching Adidas ZX 8000 Shoes

24. PlayStation 5, Xbox One, or Nintendo Switch
If your guy or girl loves to relax with a video game, then get them the console they have always been wanting or even a game they have been talking about playing. Show them that their interests interest you and that you listen to things they care about.
25. Monogamy A Hot Affair With Your Partner Game

26. Switch Pleasure Kit #5
Saving the best for last 😉

Lastly, make sure you give a gift this Valentine’s Day that shows how much you love and want your partner. Keeping the fun and love alive in a relationship is one of the most important things to maintain in a healthy and happy relationship.
What are you going to get your loved one this Valentine’s Day? How do you keep your relationship spicy, hot, and full of love?
Looking for some more sexy gift ideas? Check out this amazing post by Mimmie that features 10 sexy Valentine Gift Ideas Your Man Secretly Wants (and, I have tried some of them and can vouch that they are amazing!)
xoxo,

Wendie says
I LOVE this list! I think we should be friends! LOL!! I love that you really mixed it up. I’m pinning this to keep on hand.
The Caffeinated Mom says
hahah! Then let’s be friends!
Ally says
This is the best Valentine’s Day gift list that I’ve seen!
Camille P Arter says
Love these ideas! Thank you for being so honest!
Carrie Pankratz says
So many great ideas here! I love the soulmate mugs… they give me all the feels. lol
Mimmie Kaellander says
Love these ideas! For someone with a partner (like myself), Valentine’s Day has always been the day you “spice” things up so these gifts are perfect to do that for!
Niraj says
Oh my God! This list is too good.